St Mary

Surrey's oldest church, it is the features inside which draw visitors to the church.

Stoke D’Abernon, Surrey

Opening times

April to October 2pm to 4pm with a guide. The church is open Monday to Thursday 8am to 5pm for self guiding or by appointment.

Address

Stoke Road
Stoke D’Abernon
Surrey
KT11 3PX

St Mary's church is one of Surrey’s most historically rich and atmospheric parish churches, with origins stretching back to the Norman period. Nestled in a peaceful village setting, it offers visitors a remarkable glimpse into nearly a thousand years of English history.

One of its most celebrated features is the collection of medieval brasses, widely regarded as among the finest in the country. These intricately engraved memorials, dating from the 14th century onwards, commemorate members of the local d’Abernon family and provide a fascinating insight into medieval dress, armour, and social history. The brass of Sir John d’Abernon is particularly notable for its detailed depiction of a knight in full armour, making it a highlight for historians and visitors alike.

The church building itself reflects centuries of development. The sturdy Norman tower stands as the oldest part of the structure, while later additions in the medieval period expanded the nave and chancel. Inside, visitors will find a blend of architectural styles, from simple Romanesque features to more decorative Gothic elements. The peaceful interior, with its ancient stonework and timber, creates a strong sense of continuity with the past.

Another point of interest is the set of stained-glass windows, which add colour and storytelling to the space. Many date from the Victorian period, when churches across England were restored and embellished, yet they sit harmoniously alongside older features, enhancing the sense of layered history.

The churchyard also deserves attention, offering a tranquil space with centuries-old gravestones and mature trees. It reflects the long-standing role of the church at the heart of the community, serving generations of parishioners.

Today, St Mary’s remains an active place of worship while welcoming visitors who come to appreciate its heritage. Whether drawn by its remarkable brasses, its architecture, or its peaceful setting, visitors often find it a place that quietly connects the present with a deeply rooted past.

  • Captivating architecture

  • Fascinating churchyard

  • Glorious furnishings

  • National heritage here

  • Spectacular stained glass

  • Accessible toilets nearby

  • Car park at church

  • Church shop or souvenirs

  • Dog friendly

  • Ramp or level access available on request

  • Walkers & cyclists welcome

  • Wifi

  • Mondays@Marys - a monday morning one stop coffee for anyone wishing a cup of coffee and a slice of homemade cake. 10.30am to midday every Monday except Bank Holidays.

  • Church of England

Contact information

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